Relationships && Love

Lesson Two

Discrimination

dis·crim·i·na·tion Submit noun the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things, especially on the grounds of race, age, or sex.

non-discrimination NOUN mass noun Fair and unprejudiced treatment of different categories of people. ‘the right to non-discrimination on the grounds of gender is fundamental to democracy’

Some men do not discriminate. I mean don’t get me wrong you aren’t really supposed to judge people because of looks: But sometimes I plead the fifth, I can’t help that I have standards on things that physically attract me. I’m young but I know what I like. Men will sometimes deal with any type of women (look wise). First guy to ever as we call it “down grade” on me. I was about 15 or 16 but we had been dealing with each other for a hot little minute. We were really cool. I’m a communication type women, you have to talk to me. Be my friend and get to know me. So we did a lot of talking and getting close. We went to separate schools so we didn’t see each other much but we liked what we had. After around the 7th month he begin to change. I guess the distance was getting to him. We stop talking as much and he started to treat me differently. He joined the football team so he started to get some type of “social attention”. I felt it wasn’t going to last honestly. He started lying and we kinda stop talking to each other. He would come back and want to rekindle things and I fell for it. I later found out he was talking to a female that was my supposedly best friend, also a girl he was dating at his church. The female that was my friend hurt the worst. She wasn’t even personality or physically appealing. What he was after was the fact she was sexually activate and I wasn’t. He really hurt my feelings. Yes I was still a virgin at the time and I wasn’t interested in having sex either. I was still in the baby phase where I liked talking to my boyfriend. I was just getting use to the fact I liked boys and being comfortable in front of them. I’m really shy when it comes to men. This is the stage where I started to believe I’m boring if I’m not sexual. He was the first of many to make me feel this way. I don’t believe sex keeps a relationship together. For example: your spouse you promised you will always Love no matter what has a accident and can’t have sex anymore what do you do? Leave them or give up sex. Hard decision? 🤔 not really. Companionship and friendship comes before sexual relations. That friendship and liking their company and being able to stand being around them for more then a hour keeps it together and forever. It wasn’t me, he wasn’t mature enough for the bond and growth I wanted. The realness and closeness of a relationship.

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